What Do I Have To Do To Get My Ex Girlfriend Back

Most people find themselves asking "What do I have to do to get my ex girlfriend back" following a breakup. They start thinking and analyzing everything that could have been done differently. They even begin to make plans about apology letters and other things that might be able to help them get their girl back.

This tends to be a dead end for one reason above all else: Because you can never really tell what the real reasons were behind a breakup. Women become emotional and sometimes they do not even know what led to the break up at hand and they may not know what is making them feel the way they do. A lot of times it is harmful to use all this energy trying to figure out what really went wrong.

The first main strategy to answer the question about "what do I have to do to get my ex girlfriend back" is to forget about the relationship for a while, putting your energy into something else. Go out, make friends, have fun, network, and forget about women in general. Set some realistic goals about expanding your repertoire when it comes to seduction and social interactions overall.

Give yourself a mater of at LEAST 30 days to even couple of months and make changes in your life. Take some time away from your ex and it will work wonders.

The effect that strategies like this will have, is that it will allow you to make gradual changes in your life. And in how you perceive the subject of relationships. After a few months, you may have a much better idea of how you want to proceed with your ex.

Do you still want to get back together with her? Or are you ready to move on? Act accordingly. If you still want to get back together with her, it might be time to figure out how she is feeling about you.

Now is your chance to be a little more direct when it comes to getting your ex girlfriend back. You need to play strategically, however. Do not under any circumstances beg her to get back with you, because this is not a good time to be emotional. It will 99.9% of the time get you the opposite of your desired effect.

Instead, what you should be doing is playing things cool with your ex. If you have spent enough time apart from her, she is probably missing you as badly as you are missing her. Play hard to get a little (don't over do it) and show her that you are doing fine without her. This is called giving her the gift of missing you. This will totally inspire her to really rethink things.

And if getting back together with your ex really is meant to be, now is the time when it will become apparent. Be careful not to analyze things TOO much, because over analyzing may prevent you from acting the right way when trying to figure out "what do I have to do to get my ex girlfriend back". Just take things slow and play them cool and you will be fine.

Peace & Hair Grease,
T- Love