Dealing With The Pain Of Breakup

A breakup can be as painful as losing a loved one. Whether you're grieving being dumped by your ex girlfriend or the death of a loved on, the empty feeling of loss is mysteriously very similar. I mean she just put a dagger through your heart so you might as well be dead right?

WRONG!

While the most important part of dealing w/ the pain of being dumped is time, here are a few more tips to help you through this painful experience during that time. Remember while this experience is not easy it is something you have to work through.

Go out w/ your friends & be social. I know this tough since the break-up is the most PROMINENT thought going through your head right now. Besides, you may have alienated your friends as the relationship became more serious sp this is a great time to catch up with them & realize why they're your friends in the first place. Let loose & have fun, laugh & enjoy yourself as much as you can.

Most adults have gone through a break-up so I'm sure your friends will understand where you're at. They're your friends for a reason & will be there for you. Another thing is you have a lot of pent up feelings & you can talk it through with them & get these things off your chest. Honestly this is the point where they can be honest with you & give you their un-biased thoughts & opinions of your ex.

The time of contact after the break-up should last at least 30 days. While you have the urge to call or text or whatever other contact going through your mind, don't do it during this time. You need to really re-evaluate yourself at this point in time.

You need to find your best self while being alone & with friends. Don't neglect the thought that YOU may come to the conclusion that you both weren't right for each other or even incompatible. If you broke up this is a serious possibility that I'm not going to sugar coat.

A last tid bit of advice my friend is to steer clear of the booze because NO relationships worth being in were re-kindled during a slurred drunken phone call in the middle of the night.

While hanging with your friends is not a be all, end all way to get over a break-up it is a great start. Another resource to get you past this is an amazing e-book you can download & put to use RIGHT now. It's called Magic Of Making Up. Check it out, there's even a few videos on the page to give a better idea of this crucial info to get your Ex-Girlfriend back for good.

Peace & Hair Grease,
T- Love