I know right now it feels like your soul has been squeezed out of you. You don't care about work, eating or even going to the gym anymore. It sucks, trust me I've been there.
You've been a "relationship guy" aka been in a relationship with a girl you loved for months or even years. As it might not seem like there's a bright light at the end of the tunnel there definitely is. This is a time to reflect on yourself & be selfish. Seriously when one door closes a window opens. Life's just funny like that.
By being selfish do I mean be an arrogant prick to yourself & others? Um, NO! I mean do things for yourself now. This is the time to treat yourself to some new stuff or some old stuff you've missed doing while being in the relationship with her just because she didn't like it.
It's a big world bro. Maybe you love(d) Mexican food & she loved pigging out on Chinese food which you managed to develop a taste for. You did it to make her happy. If you gave up something you loved go ahead & splurge yourself in it as long as it isn't a self-destructing bad habit you had.
Eat the foods you haven't in a while, wear the clothes you like for right now, play some games or sports you haven't done in a while. Seriously it's your life & there's no reason you should wallow around in self pity over this break-up.
While doing these things though remember: Keep your good habits up as well as pick up some new good habits such as bathing daily, wearing clean clothes (buying a new outfit & haircut can do wonders for you if even it's just temporary) working out, being productive at work & even spending time with some family & friends you've been meaning to do but haven't gotten around to in a while. Bang a hooker (Okay I'm joking about this one =)
It's your life & this my friend is totally your time to spread your wings & fly! Until next time, have a great day & make this one your best!
Peace & Hair Grease,
T- Love
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