Hey guys you may be making some common mistakes in trying to get your ex-girlfriend back. TW Jackson does a video here of an excellent case study that I wanted to share with you guys because he gives some rock solid advice.
I told you guys this was rock solid advice right! This is just a small sample of the powerful information in T Dubbs ebook The Magic Of Making Up. It's an instant download so go HERE to pick up your copy & be on the way to getting back with your girl tonight!
Peace & hair grease,
T- Love
Showing posts with label ex-girlfriend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ex-girlfriend. Show all posts
Friday, February 27, 2009
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Dealing With The Pain Of Breakup
A breakup can be as painful as losing a loved one. Whether you're grieving being dumped by your ex girlfriend or the death of a loved on, the empty feeling of loss is mysteriously very similar. I mean she just put a dagger through your heart so you might as well be dead right? 
WRONG!
While the most important part of dealing w/ the pain of being dumped is time, here are a few more tips to help you through this painful experience during that time. Remember while this experience is not easy it is something you have to work through.
Go out w/ your friends & be social. I know this tough since the break-up is the most PROMINENT thought going through your head right now. Besides, you may have alienated your friends as the relationship became more serious sp this is a great time to catch up with them & realize why they're your friends in the first place. Let loose & have fun, laugh & enjoy yourself as much as you can.
Most adults have gone through a break-up so I'm sure your friends will understand where you're at. They're your friends for a reason & will be there for you. Another thing is you have a lot of pent up feelings & you can talk it through with them & get these things off your chest. Honestly this is the point where they can be honest with you & give you their un-biased thoughts & opinions of your ex.
The time of contact after the break-up should last at least 30 days. While you have the urge to call or text or whatever other contact going through your mind, don't do it during this time. You need to really re-evaluate yourself at this point in time.
You need to find your best self while being alone & with friends. Don't neglect the thought that YOU may come to the conclusion that you both weren't right for each other or even incompatible. If you broke up this is a serious possibility that I'm not going to sugar coat.
A last tid bit of advice my friend is to steer clear of the booze because NO relationships worth being in were re-kindled during a slurred drunken phone call in the middle of the night.
While hanging with your friends is not a be all, end all way to get over a break-up it is a great start. Another resource to get you past this is an amazing e-book you can download & put to use RIGHT now. It's called Magic Of Making Up. Check it out, there's even a few videos on the page to give a better idea of this crucial info to get your Ex-Girlfriend back for good.
Peace & Hair Grease,
T- Love
WRONG!
While the most important part of dealing w/ the pain of being dumped is time, here are a few more tips to help you through this painful experience during that time. Remember while this experience is not easy it is something you have to work through.
Go out w/ your friends & be social. I know this tough since the break-up is the most PROMINENT thought going through your head right now. Besides, you may have alienated your friends as the relationship became more serious sp this is a great time to catch up with them & realize why they're your friends in the first place. Let loose & have fun, laugh & enjoy yourself as much as you can.
Most adults have gone through a break-up so I'm sure your friends will understand where you're at. They're your friends for a reason & will be there for you. Another thing is you have a lot of pent up feelings & you can talk it through with them & get these things off your chest. Honestly this is the point where they can be honest with you & give you their un-biased thoughts & opinions of your ex.
The time of contact after the break-up should last at least 30 days. While you have the urge to call or text or whatever other contact going through your mind, don't do it during this time. You need to really re-evaluate yourself at this point in time.
You need to find your best self while being alone & with friends. Don't neglect the thought that YOU may come to the conclusion that you both weren't right for each other or even incompatible. If you broke up this is a serious possibility that I'm not going to sugar coat.
A last tid bit of advice my friend is to steer clear of the booze because NO relationships worth being in were re-kindled during a slurred drunken phone call in the middle of the night.
While hanging with your friends is not a be all, end all way to get over a break-up it is a great start. Another resource to get you past this is an amazing e-book you can download & put to use RIGHT now. It's called Magic Of Making Up. Check it out, there's even a few videos on the page to give a better idea of this crucial info to get your Ex-Girlfriend back for good.
Peace & Hair Grease,
T- Love
Monday, February 16, 2009
Avoid The Booze After A Breakup
If you're into booze or drugs avoid them by all use after being broken up w/ by your ex.
Here's the most important reasons why:
-They are depressants & you have a million thought swirling through your head right now so no need to multiply them by negativity.
-Them 3AM phone calls to your ex are NOT the way to win back her affection. You often use the words Love & that coming out in slurred drunken speech is highly un-attractive, just think of drunk dials you've received from your ex girlfriend, good grief!
-The hangovers & feeling like crap the next day are not the way to go about your life after break up. This is not the way to move forward in your life to becoming your best self possible.
Also here's a funny video on the History Of The Drunk Dial
Peace & Hair Grease,
T- Love
Here's the most important reasons why:
-They are depressants & you have a million thought swirling through your head right now so no need to multiply them by negativity.
-Them 3AM phone calls to your ex are NOT the way to win back her affection. You often use the words Love & that coming out in slurred drunken speech is highly un-attractive, just think of drunk dials you've received from your ex girlfriend, good grief!
-The hangovers & feeling like crap the next day are not the way to go about your life after break up. This is not the way to move forward in your life to becoming your best self possible.
Peace & Hair Grease,
T- Love
Saturday, February 14, 2009
What About My Stuff After The Break-Up?
After the initial break-up there will be some issues that need to be handled. While it may be pain-staking you must avoid making contact with her. Also you must keep contact from her through texts & phone calls etc. to a minimum & being convenient for you. You just have to keep it cool.
There are exceptions to every rule & there will be some here as well. A big matter after a breakup beyond the initial heart wrenching you're going through is going to be "stuff". Yours and/or hers needs to get back to its rightful owner. If she has your stuff (stuff that actually matters to you, that Cranberries CD that has "your song"? Forget about it). You need to make contact & set up a time to pick up/ drop off stuff. If she wants to do it in person, fine. If she has someone else do it that's fine too.
Be courteous & pack her things neatly, no need to be super neat but don't disrespect her possessions neither. Don't break anything & also don't "accidentally" forget to include anything. Give her everything back that's hers including GIFTS you've given her. Do as you would the way you expect your things back as well. If she "forgets" something of yours that was sentimental to your relationship, forget about it. No sense being needy & hounding her over small stuff. It probably means more to her so let her keep it anyway.
The big meet-up after the break-up.
-Dress nicely, be clean etc.
-Be in the BEST spirits you can be in but not overly friendly
-No physical contact such as hugs, kisses etc. is to be done
-Make it short & sweet. Set the meet up time to be right before you're going out w/ the boys, seeing a family member or even going to the gym.
-Don't come out to tell her what you're doing but if she asks why you're dressed up for, let her know. Don't tell her if you're going on a date & most importantly don't lie about going on a date as that's tacky & you may never get her back.
I hope these tips have helped you out in the "exchanging of stuff".
Peace & Hair Grease,
T- Love
There are exceptions to every rule & there will be some here as well. A big matter after a breakup beyond the initial heart wrenching you're going through is going to be "stuff". Yours and/or hers needs to get back to its rightful owner. If she has your stuff (stuff that actually matters to you, that Cranberries CD that has "your song"? Forget about it). You need to make contact & set up a time to pick up/ drop off stuff. If she wants to do it in person, fine. If she has someone else do it that's fine too.
Be courteous & pack her things neatly, no need to be super neat but don't disrespect her possessions neither. Don't break anything & also don't "accidentally" forget to include anything. Give her everything back that's hers including GIFTS you've given her. Do as you would the way you expect your things back as well. If she "forgets" something of yours that was sentimental to your relationship, forget about it. No sense being needy & hounding her over small stuff. It probably means more to her so let her keep it anyway.
The big meet-up after the break-up.
-Dress nicely, be clean etc.
-Be in the BEST spirits you can be in but not overly friendly
-No physical contact such as hugs, kisses etc. is to be done
-Make it short & sweet. Set the meet up time to be right before you're going out w/ the boys, seeing a family member or even going to the gym.
-Don't come out to tell her what you're doing but if she asks why you're dressed up for, let her know. Don't tell her if you're going on a date & most importantly don't lie about going on a date as that's tacky & you may never get her back.
I hope these tips have helped you out in the "exchanging of stuff".
Peace & Hair Grease,
T- Love
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