Recently broken up and now wondering "how can I get back together with my ex girlfriend”? You may want to score your ex girlfriend back immediately, and this is a common feeling that everyone experiences after a breakup.
You might find yourself confused, emotionally depressed and wonder what to do now. Your first instinct may be to call her begging her to come back to you. But seriously is this going to make things better? In reality what is probably going to happen is this will strain the situation much more and chase your ex girlfriend away even further.
What you should actually do at this point is the opposite of what you are feeling. Do you feel like calling your ex? Don't! Do you feel like staying inside and moping all day long? Don't! Instead, follow these three basic steps and you will have the answer that you need to the age old question "How do I get back together with my ex girlfriend?"
Step 1 - How to get back with my ex girlfriend: Accept the Break Up!
You need to fully accept that the break up is happening. Tell her that you are okay with it, and allow the "moving on" process to begin. When you do this, it will eliminate a large amount of the tension and stress that is being experienced by both of you. Your ex girlfriend will need time to think about the relationship, and this will give you time as well to consider your options. If your ex girlfriend realizes that she still loves you, she will find a way to get back with you.
Step 2 - How to get back with my ex girlfriend: Do not contact your ex!
Do not make an effort to contact your ex anymore right now. No phone calls, text messages, emails etc. You should cut communication off with her so that there can be some "thinking time" for yourself and more importantly for her. This might seem backwards, but by cutting all communication off you are letting her know that you're already moving on and that you will be fine.
This step is key because it will also allow her to have some time to miss you again. When you can separate yourself from your her and can calm your nerves, that may be the best time to let your ex girlfriend realize how important you were to her.
Step 3 - How to get back with my ex: Plan Ahead for the Get Together
Once you have completed the two steps mentioned just above, you can start working on planning on when and where you should eventually meet. You also need to plan what should be said when you do meet up again. This will allow you to get a better idea of whether or not your ex girlfriend is still in love with you, and also if there is any chance that you and her will ever be together again.
"How to get back with my ex girlfriend?" Can be a little more complicated than the three steps above. Good thing for you my friend is the extra details to getting your ex back can be found in The Magic Of Making Up which is easily downloadable and you can work on getting your ex girlfriend back now.
Peace & hair grease,
T- Love
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Tuesday, February 24, 2009
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